you already know that scripts, and tips and tricks aren't enough.
- You've tried stay calm.
- You've tried explaining.
- You've tried giving choices.
BUT WHEN YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TOOLS?
To the parent who just wants a calmer home and a stronger connection with their child.
You know how to create NEW patterns that actually help you both
Your child will start to bounce back from setbacks instead of spiraling.
And meltdowns no longer control your life.
And yet the same explosive moments keep repeating.
This isn't about trying harder. It's about changing patterns that keep those big reactions controlling your days.
The hardest part about parenting a child with big behaviours? Nothing seems to work.
👉You try every strategy you can find, but the meltdowns still keep happening.
👉You want to be calm and connected, but you end up overwhelmed, snapping, or shutting down.
👉And instead of enjoying your child, you’re bracing for the next explosion.
It’s no wonder you’re exhausted! Your confidence starts to erode, you wonder "is this normal for their age?" and you worry about what this means for their future and your home doesn’t feel the way you hoped it would.
Even worse? You are starting to worry they won't just grow out of this.
Here's What Makes Regulate & Relate Different
I get it (no really, I. GET. IT). I’m a parent of a kid who had big behaviours too. That’s why I combined my background as an educator (B.Ed, M.Ed, masters-level parent coaching certification) with lived experience to create clear, proven frameworks.
It's Both: You feel confident parenting your intense kid.
And, they feel more capable and resilient
You aren't choosing between your child's needs and your needs.
With R&R you'll get:
Ideas made for a child who doesn't respond to the typical parenting advice: I deeply understand these kids, and you'll see why typical advice is making things worse, and what actually works.
Before-During-After Timing: my signature strategy of will help you conserve parenting energy, finally understanding WHEN a strategy can be the most effective.
Approaches that address the whole child “Stay calm and validate” is only part of the picture.
Kids with big behaviours experience the world differently, so it's key to support their internal experience while shaping their external behavior so you’re not just reacting to meltdowns, you’re influencing what drives them.
How Shame is DEEPLY influencing your child understanding the role of shame is often the quickest transformation for parents. You'll see how you've been accidentally increasing meltdowns because of how your child experiences shame.
INCLUDING BRAND NEW TO THE PROGRAM...
Endless meltdowns
and power struggles
Doubting yourself and
feeling like a “bad parent”
A child with low self-confidence
Fewer, less intense, not as long meltdowns.
Feeling confident because what you do WORKS!
A child who is resilient, and CONFIDENT!
IMAGINE HOW IT WILL FEEL TO GO
FROM THIS
TO THIS
SAY HELLO TO
A System That Finally Works for the Kids with the Biggest Behaviours
A clear, practical approach that interrupts the same reactive cycle, builds more helpful pathways, and creates a calmer, more connected home.
WHAT'S INSIDE A SYSTEM THAT ACTUALLY WORKS FOR KIDS WITH BIG MELTDOWNS?
WHAT'S INSIDE A SYSTEM THAT ACTUALLY WORKS FOR INTENSE KIDS?
VALUE: $399
* Understand what helps and what stands in the way of kids changing their behaviour.
* Learn when to help and when to stand confidently by.
* Equip yourself and your child with all you need to TRANSFORM meltdowns.
INSIDE YOU'LL RECEIVE
R&R DETAILS
INSIDE YOU'LL RECEIVE
R&R DETAILS
AND THE BONUSES!!!
Deck of Regulation cards
Simple, actionable games designed to help your child feel calm BEFORE the meltdown.
Deck of Emotion cards
Help your child (who won't talk about feelings!) name their experience so words replace meltdowns
7 short kid videos
Your child can learn alongside you in these short kid videos that help kids turn down shame and understand themselves
Sensory Systems Guide
Reviewed by a pediatric occupational therapist! To help you begin to decode why your child reacts the way they do and what they actually need.
Printables, Family Games AND New Pathways Protocol Video
Everything you need to help your child make new brain pathways toward cooperation!
AND WHEN YOU JOIN BEFORE WEDNESDAY
How to get your kids to listen
In this practical and short guide you'll learn exactly what prevents kids from listening, and how to both get them to listen and cooperate
Summer Survival Guide
Have quick, easy to implement plans for the most common summer challenges like refusing summer camp drop off.
RESULTS LIKE THESE ARE WAITING FOR YOU
"We are getting SO MUCH out of the program, I never expected to things to shift so quickly!!"
"I absolutely see the value and more and I'm glad we did."
I created Regulate & Relate to give you simplified steps to create New Pathways
Because you shouldn’t have to live in survival mode.
Because your child deserves TO FEEL BETTER INSIDE AND OUT
Because peace, connection, and confidence ARE possible.
What You'll Be Able To Do
Understand Your Child in a Way That Changes Everything
You’ll finally see what’s actually driving your child’s behaviour so you stop guessing, and start responding in ways that truly work.
Staying calm doesn't happen when parents TRY HARDER, it happens when they are clear on what's going on, and have energy to handle it (because of the energy they've put in earlier).
Hold Loving Boundaries Without Power Struggles
You’ll master validation, clear limits, and simple follow-through, so you can stop negotiating, yelling, or walking on eggshells.
Catch the Meltdowns Before they Explode
Not in an exhausting, try to fix every problem sort of way, but you'll learn how to spot early dysregulation and know what to do that helps, instead of making things worse.
Stay Calm (For Real) in the Hardest Moments
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Handle The Remaining Meltdowns with Confidence
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As you implement the New Pathways Protocol and the strategies from Regulate & Relate, meltdowns will decrease in intensity, frequency and duration, however, you still need a clear plan for when they do happen.
Instead of panicking or trying to “fix” it, you’ll know your exact role at the top of the wave, reducing shame and helping your child come back down safely.
Teach Accountability Without Crushing Their Confidence
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You’ll guide your child to repair mistakes and take responsibility, all without triggering shame spirals or solidifying an identity of "I'm a bad kid who messed up again."
Build Real, Lasting Confidence in Your Child
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Kids with big behaviours can be their own worst critics.
You’ll learn how to strengthen your child’s self-worth, reshape the way they talk about themselves, and help them build the confidence they need to handle life’s challenges with resilience.
Bringing It All Together
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You’ll understand when to look for more supports for your child for things like sensory or anxiety factors may be involved, and how to seek support calmly and confidently if needed.
By the end of this program, you’ll feel empowered, equipped, and deeply connected to your child, no matter how big the behaviours are
Parenting Shouldn't Feel Like You Are Constantly BRACING
RAISING A CHILD SHOULDN’T MEAN CONSTANT CHAOS.
IT’S TIME TO PARENT WITH CONFIDENCE, CONNECTION, AND CALM.
Learn the exact strategies that help parents of kids with big behaviours to defuse meltdowns, end power struggles, and create a thriving, connected relationship with their child without walking on eggshells or second-guessing every response.
I created this program after working with so many parents of kids who didn't fit the typical advice who were trapped in reactive parenting. Wondering if this is normal? Worrying if they're doing something wrong. To try every strategy in the book and still feel like you’re failing.
That’s exactly what Regulate & Relate gives you
Your CHILD doesn't need stricter discipline or endless compromises, neither of those are actually respectful parenting.
THEY NEED HELP TO CREATE NEW PATHWAYS THAT HELP THEM NAME THEIR EXPERIENCE INSTEAD OF MELT DOWN, STAY WITH THE CHALLENGE INSTEAD OF FLIP OUT AND HELP THEM COOPERATE INSTEAD OF PUSH BACK.
There’s no reason why your parenting journey should be ruled by meltdowns, uncertainty, or burnout. You can have a deeply connected relationship with your child without sacrificing your sanity in the process.
This program exists to give you the knowledge, tools, and confidence to make that a reality.
JOIN NOW & START YOUR TRANSFORMATION TODAY
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After years of post secondary education and working with parents of intense kids, here's what I know to be true:
I’m Myla
- Myla
My work focuses on helping parents of kids with big behaviours shift from guilt, panic, and reactivity to calm, confidence, and real connection... even in the hardest moments.
All this leads to parents experiencing more joy in parenting.
A PCI Certified Parent Coach and Parent Educator, former kindergarten teacher and fellow POSK (parent of spicy kid).
I have a B.Ed and M.Ed, and Master’s level parent coaching certification and I’ve spent years specializing in support for parents of intense, explosive, kids with big behaviours.
I created this program because the truth is, most parenting advice simply doesn’t work for kids like ours. They need something different, they need someone who GETS them.
I CAN'T WAIT FOR YOU TO GET SUPPORT THAT TRULY UNDERSTANDS YOU AND YOUR CHILD.
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VALUE $488
✔ Lifetime access to the full Regulate & Relate program
✔ The New Pathway Protocol system
✔ Bite-sized audio lessons (delivered via private podcast feed)
✔ Accompanying summaries and implementation guides
✔ Printable workbooks and activity sheets
✔ Kid-friendly explainer videos
✔ Sensory systems guide
✔ Regulation + emotion card decks (with parent guidance)
✔ TROUBLE-SHOOTING GUIDE
Inside Regulate & Relate:
Bonuses Included:
"it has changed EVERYTHING"
Walking on eggshells, never knowing what will set off the next meltdown.
Feeling exhausted from constant power struggles and emotional explosions.
Watching your child's confidence get lower and lower.
Trying every parenting trick in the book, but nothing sticks.
Worrying about their future, friendships, and ability to cope with big emotions.
Parenting a Kid with BIG FEELINGS can feel like a daily battle. But with the right tools, everything Can change
Confidently handling meltdowns with a calm, connected approach.
Fewer power struggles and your child finally listens without constant battles.
A stronger parent-child bond where your child feels understood and safe.
A child who can self-regulate and express their emotions in healthy ways.
Peace in your home, instead of constant chaos, you get more laughter, connection, and joy.
BEFORE JOINING Regulate & Relate:
AFTER JOINING Regulate & Relate:
Got Questions?
I’ve tried other parenting courses before, and nothing worked. How is this different?
How much time do I need to commit each week?
What if my child is different? Will this work for them?
What if I fall behind? Will I lose access?
How soon will I start seeing results?
What if I try it and it doesn’t work for me?
I’m really struggling right now, should I wait until things settle down?
I’ve tried other parenting courses before, and nothing worked. How is this different?
- It’s designed specifically for parents of “spicy” kids, who are more intense, strong-willed, and sensitive.
- It gives you short, actionable steps you can actually implement. No overwhelming theory, just practical strategies.
- It meets you where you are, whether you listen to the daily podcast episodes, read the short emails, or go all in with the workbooks, every piece will bring progress.
How much time do I need to commit each week?
- 10-15 minute daily podcast episodes (listen while you drive, clean, or have your morning coffee)
- Daily email summaries (if you prefer reading instead of listening)
- Optional workbooks & guides (for those who want to go deeper)
- Kid-friendly videos (to help your child understand themselves better)
Even if you only listen to the daily episodes, you’ll still see a difference in how you handle meltdowns, power struggles, and emotional intensity.
What if my child is different? Will this work for them?
Plus, I’ll be giving you tools like:
✔️ A Sensory System Guide to understand your child’s sensory triggers and needs
✔️ Regulation & Emotion Cards to help your child develop self-awareness and coping strategies
✔️ Real-life examples & scripts so you know exactly what to say and do in tricky moments
What if I fall behind? Will I lose access?
Parenting is unpredictable, and some weeks are harder than others - that’s okay! You can pause, catch up when you’re ready, and revisit the lessons whenever you need them.
How soon will I start seeing results?
Things like fewer meltdowns, a more peaceful home, and feeling more in control of their parenting.
The full transformation happens over time as you build these new skills, but you’ll start noticing positive changes sooner than you think!
What if I try it and it doesn’t work for me?
That’s why I offer a full money-back guarantee. If you complete all the resources in the 6 weeks and don’t see meaningful changes in your home, I’ll refund you.
I’m really struggling right now, should I wait until things settle down?
Imagine 6 weeks from now, waking up without the dread of another battle over getting dressed, screen time, or bedtime. Imagine feeling calm, confident, and in control.
There’s no perfect time to start but there is a perfect time to say yes to making things better.
100% Confidence Guarantee
If you go through all the materials in Regulate & Relate program, implement the New Pathways Protocol for 30 days, and don’t see shifts in your child’s regulation or your confidence as a parent, just let me know within 30 days. I’ll personally refund your investment.
This program was created with real parents in mind. Busy, exhausted, and overwhelmed but deeply committed to their child’s growth. If you show up and do the work, I believe you’ll see the transformation.
I know that investing in your parenting journey is a big decision, and I want you to feel completely confident in taking this step. That’s why I’m offering a 100% Money-Back Guarantee.
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