Want to finally understand what’s really behind your child’s intense reactions, like control, perfectionism, or shutdown so you can respond with clarity and compassion, without dreading their reaction or tiptoeing around every tough moment?



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The Shame Spiral Workshop

Say goodbye to overreacting, tiptoeing, or second-guessing every response, and say hello to calm, confident parenting rooted in real understanding. This eye-opening, practical workshop ensures you know how to respond to shame-driven behaviour without making it worse.

Understanding and responding to your child’s shame is the #1 way to transform difficult behaviours and build a deeper, more secure relationship that lasts for life.

In fact, recognising and interrupting the shame spiral is the answer to healing perfectionism, being able to take responsibility, build confidence and not just in the moment, but in the long term.

And if that wasn't reason enough to pay attention...

Did you know?

You can help your child build true resilience — the kind that can weather frustration, failure, and feedback.

You stop accidentally fuelling shame through even well-meaning corrections.

And you get to step out of the exhausting pattern of tiptoeing, overexplaining, or second-guessing yourself

All in all? Understanding shame might be the single most powerful shift you can make in your parenting — and this workshop gives you the roadmap.

Buuuuuuuuuuut if you don’t know how to respond to shame-driven behaviour, things just keep spiraling.

Annnnnnnd:
You might be stuck trying things that just don't work for YOUR child. 

You might be watching your child say awful things about themselves or push you away when you’re trying to help.

And you’re likely desperate to respond in a way that actually helps, but don’t know what that is. 

A common misunderstanding is that when your child melts down, tries to control everything, or crumbles at the slightest correction, that it is bad behaviour, the truth?
 It’s shame.

And all this?
Has probably got you feeling exhausted and unsure.

You want to feel confident in those hard moments — but without understanding shame, it’s nearly impossible to respond in ways that create safety.

And the longer shame goes unchecked? The more it chips away at your child’s confidence, resilience, and self-worth.

It doesn’t have to be that way — and that’s exactly what this workshop will show you.

I get it!
I’ve seen parents blame themselves.
Blame their child.

Or wonder why nothing seems to work.

But the truth is… no one ever taught you how to recognize shame.

Especially when it hides behind control, perfectionism, or shutting down.

Once you have this missing piece and build resilience in your child which has long lasting impacts on self-worth, resilience, and long-term mental health, everything can change. 

This workshop is the easiest and quickest way to transform how your child's shame fuelled behaviours. 

What if shame is the missing piece you haven’t been shown?
The one that explains why your child melts down when you give feedback.
Or covers their ears when you validate their feelings.
Or says “don’t say that!” when you try to name their feeling.

Inside this workshop, you'll learn

How to spot shame (even when it doesn’t look like shame)


How to respond without adding more shame


How to build shame resilience so your child feels safe, seen, and capable — even in hard moments

😕 Your child spirals after a mistake.



😤 You spend so much energy trying to avoid triggering another meltdown


😔 You’ve tried “stay calm,” “just connect,” or “validate their feelings” but nothing works


You meet those moments with calm clarity and your child begins to believe in their loveability.

You see how shame is fuelling their behaviour and you start communicating differently.


You have tools that actually work because they target behind the behaviour and deal with the shame

IMAGINE HOW IT WILL FEEL TO GO 

FROM THIS

TO THIS

SAY HELLO TO A NEW WAY TO SUPPORT YOUR CHILD
 (AND YOURSELF)

The practical, perspective-shifting workshop to help you recognize, respond to, and reduce shame in your child, so you can apologize, heal perfectionism and increase their ability to handle losing.

WHAT’S INSIDE THE SHAME SPIRAL WORKSHOP

THE SHAME SPIRAL WORKSHOP

WORKSHOP

VALUE $97
Say goodbye to confusion about your child’s baffling behaviours.

Inside this 60‑minute workshop, you’ll discover:
  • Join the 1000's of parents who have taken this workshop and have uncovered the hidden role of shame.
  • Finally UNDERSTAND how your child has been experiencing the world. 
  • The three‑part “Before, During, After” blueprint to build shame resilience.
This companion resource turns learning into action:

  • Clear examples of shame‑fueled behaviours and how to respond.
  • Simple scripts and phrases to use when shame is triggered.
  • Reflection prompts to personalize the “before, during, after” framework to your family.
  • Your cheat‑sheet for handling tough parenting moments with calm, clarity, and connection.

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RESULTS LIKE THESE ARE WAITING FOR YOU

I’m Myla

- Myla

My work focuses on helping parents of spicy, intense kids, shift from guilt, panic, and reactivity to calm, confidence, and real connection — even in the hardest moments. 

All this leads to parents experiencing more joy in parenting. 

I believe parents deserve this knowledge in a clear, compassionate, and immediately useful way. That’s why I created this workshop.


A PCI Certified Parent Coach and Parent Educator, former kindergarten teacher and fellow POSK (parent of spicy kid).

I have a B.Ed and M.Ed, and Master’s level parent coaching certification and I’ve spent years specializing in support for parents of intense, explosive, highly sensitive kids. 

I created the shame spiral workshop because the truth is, most parenting advice simply doesn’t work  for kids like ours. They need something different, they need someone who GETS them. 

I CAN'T WAIT FOR YOU TO GET SUPPORT THAT TRULY UNDERSTANDS YOU AND YOUR CHILD. 


"I've never seen the connection to shame made before, and so many things just clicked."

Is this bundle right for you?
Let's find out

☑ You are trying to avoid triggers, but the smallest thing sets them off. 

☑ You’ve tried strategies before, but nothing seems to actually work for your strong-willed, sensitive kid.

☑ You know meltdowns and shame spirals aren’t “bad behavior,” but you’re not sure what else to do.

☑ You want simple, realistic steps you can fit into your day — not hours of homework.

☑ You long for a calmer home, a child who is thriving.

I'm READY!

You’re a parent of a sensitive, intense, or strong-willed child — the kind who:

Here's what other parents have to say about the resources....

"This workshop change my life with my kiddo"

"it feels like the key to all of my kid's challenging behaviors."

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