Does this sound like you?

You love your child fiercely, but some days feel like a never-ending battle.

You’ve tried gentle parenting, firm boundaries, reward charts, and (let’s be honest) yelling… and nothing sticks.

Every little thing feels like a trigger for a meltdown. From the color of their cup to who turns off the TV.

You’re constantly walking on eggshells, planning your day around avoiding their next outburst.

You want to be the calm, confident parent your child needs but in the heat of the moment, you feel helpless, frustrated, and exhausted.

Your child isn’t “too much.” And you’re not failing as a parent.

You are just missing a roadmap for how to help your child regulate their emotions so you can stop managing chaos and start building connection.

Introducing... Regulate & Relate

A 6-week, easy-to-follow program designed for overwhelmed parents of emotionally intense, “spicy” kids who want to:

Dramatically reduce meltdowns (and make them shorter + less intense when they do happen)

Handle power struggles with confidence (without yelling or giving in)

Teach their child healthy coping skills they’ll actually use so they can manage frustration, disappointment, and change

Strengthen their bond with their child, ensuring a deep, lifelong connection

Finally feel calm and in control even when emotions are running high

This is NOT another overwhelming parenting book you’ll buy and never finish

This is a step-by-step system, delivered in bite-sized, actionable lessons you can start using right away

But here’s what I know now...

But here’s what I know now...

Success Stories

I've been there...

I’m Myla, parent educator and coach and founder of Joyful Parents, where I help parents of emotionally intense kids navigate big emotions with confidence and connection.

I know exactly how it feels to be in your shoes.

"I just don’t know what to do anymore."


"Nothing is working, I feel like I’ve tried it all."


"I love my child more than anything, but I don’t know how much more of this I can take."

Even with my 9 years of post-secondary education, my degrees, my daughter wasn’t responding to what i tried.

I read all the parenting books.

I tried all the “gentle” scripts and techniques.

I even started avoiding situations just to prevent the next emotional explosion.

The shift that changed everything?

No longer focusing on controlling or stopping her behaviour, and instead figuring out WHY she was doing those behaviours. 

Once I understood why my daughter was reacting the way she was and learned how to support her nervous system in the right way, the power struggles dramatically decreased. The meltdowns weren’t as intense. And I finally felt confident and in control as a parent.

I created Regulate & Relate to give you that same transformation, and in only 6 weeks

Because you shouldn’t have to live in survival mode.

Because your child deserves a parent who truly understands them.

Because peace, connection, and confidence ARE possible.

What You’ll Learn

Knowing Where You Are Going, and Understanding Your Child in a Whole New Way

01

You’ll finally understand why your child reacts the way they do and why nothing you’ve tried so far has really worked.

This week lays the foundation for deep transformation by helping you shift your mindset and clarify what lasting change actually looks like in your home.

Understanding Dysregulation and Your Child from the Bottom-Up

02

Meltdowns don’t come out of nowhere. Your child isn’t actually going from 0-100 in an instant, it just feels that way.

This week, you’ll learn how to identify the subtle cues of dysregulation before things escalate and how to support your child through emotional storms in a way that truly helps.

Understanding Your Child’s Behaviors EVEN Better, and What You Can Start Doing Today

03

This is where things start to click. You’ll learn a powerful framework to understand what’s really driving your child’s behavior and, most importantly, what you can actually do to help them build self-regulation skills. (Hint: It’s probably not what you’ve been told before!)

Being the Calm, Confident Parent (Even If You Don’t Feel Like One!) and How to Hold Loving Boundaries

04

If setting boundaries with your spicy kid feels impossible (because their reaction to those boundaries feels SO INTENSE), this week will change everything.

You’ll master the art of firm yet loving limit-setting, helping your child feel safe and supported even when they don’t get their way.

Building Your Child’s Confidence in Themselves

05

Spicy kids can be their own worst critics.

This week, you’ll learn how to strengthen your child’s self-worth, reshape the way they talk about themselves, and help them build the confidence they need to handle life’s challenges with resilience.

Bringing It All Together, and How to Use the New Strategies You’ve Learned

06

By now, you’ll be seeing real changes in your home.

This week will teach you how to keep the momentum going, what to do when things stop working, and how to feel truly confident as the parent your child needs.

By the end of these 6 weeks, you’ll feel empowered, equipped, and deeply connected to your child, no matter how spicy they are

Parenting Shouldn’t Feel Like Walking on Eggshells…

RAISING A CHILD SHOULDN’T MEAN CONSTANT CHAOS.
IT’S TIME TO PARENT WITH CONFIDENCE, CONNECTION, AND CALM.

Learn the exact strategies that help parents of “spicy” kids defuse meltdowns, end power struggles, and create a thriving, connected relationship with their child without walking on eggshells or second-guessing every response.

I created this program after working with so many parents of spicy kids who were trapped in reactive parenting. To wonder if you’re doing something wrong. To try every strategy in the book and still feel like you’re failing.

That’s exactly what Regulate & Relate gives you

Spicy kids don’t need stricter discipline or endless compromises, neither of those is actually respectful parenting.

They need tools to manage big emotions and parents who feel confident guiding them.

There’s no reason why your parenting journey should be ruled by meltdowns, uncertainty, or burnout. You can have a deeply connected relationship with your child without sacrificing your sanity in the process.

This program exists to give you the knowledge, tools, and confidence to make that a reality.

JOIN NOW & START YOUR TRANSFORMATION TODAY

But here’s what I know now...

Walking on eggshells, never knowing what will set off the next meltdown.

Feeling exhausted from constant power struggles and emotional explosions.

Watching your child spiral and not knowing how to help.

Trying every parenting trick in the book, but nothing sticks.

Worrying about their future, friendships, and ability to cope with big emotions.

Parenting a spicy kid can feel like a daily battle. But with the right tools, everything Can change

Confidently handling meltdowns with a calm, connected approach.

Fewer power struggles - your child finally listens without constant battles.

A stronger parent-child bond where your child feels understood and safe.

A child who can self-regulate and express their emotions in healthy ways.

Peace in your home - instead of constant chaos, you get more laughter, connection, and joy.

BEFORE JOINING Regulate & Relate:

AFTER JOINING Regulate & Relate:

Here’s How It Works

Over 6 weeks, you’ll receive:

5 short podcast-style audio lessons per week

10-15 minutes each - perfect for busy parents!

Daily emails with key takeaways

So you can quickly absorb the most important lessons

Guides, workbooks & activities

To help you apply what you learn (with your child!)

Kid-friendly videos

To help your child understand their emotions and feel empowered to manage them

PLUS YOUR BONUSES

Sensory Systems Guide

To help you begin to decode why your child reacts the way they do and what they actually need.

Sensory Systems Guide

To help you begin to decode why your child reacts the way they do and what they actually need.

Sensory Systems Guide

To help you begin to decode why your child reacts the way they do and what they actually need.

Deck of Regulation cards

Simple, actionable strategies designed to help your child cope with big emotions in the moment.

Deck of Emotion cards

Helps kids identify and express their feelings while strengthening their communication skills.

Everything is designed to be simple, practical, and immediately helpful. Because you don’t have time for anything else.

100% Confidence Guarantee

If you go through the Regulate & Relate program, implement the strategies, and don’t see real, tangible shifts in your child’s regulation and your confidence as a parent, just let me know within 60 days. I’ll personally refund your investment. No hoops, no hassle, no hard feelings.

This program was created with real parents in mind. Busy, exhausted, and overwhelmed but deeply committed to their child’s growth. If you show up and do the work, I believe you’ll see the transformation.

I know that investing in your parenting journey is a big decision, and I want you to feel completely confident in taking this step. That’s why I’m offering a 100% Money-Back Guarantee.

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